By Lim Sok Fern (47395)
When
we first open our eyes in the morning, I believe that most of us will look for
our digital devices and check what time is it and surf the Internet to seek for
latest news and updates. We have all
been there. We are so used to glance on phone screens that it becomes a habit
now.
Due
to the convenience of social media, we are expected to be connected 7 days per
week and 24 hours per day. For instances, a group leader is predicted to answer
his or her group mates’ inquiries although it is midnight time and a worker is
expected to fulfill his or her boss’s order to complete certain tasks even he
or she is on their off day. All these expectations are followed by stress,
exhausted and unhealthy lifestyle as people never get to enjoy their time in
their life.
Booher
(2014) pointed that if people spend an hour on social media per day, the amount
of network time would be accumulated and equals to nine weeks a year! In other
words, the social media is wasting our time, reducing the productivity and
affecting our performance. Instead of sticking with our social media accounts,
we shall think what can we do, create, build, or learn with that time.
Moreover,
it is just the Internet. Do you really know all the hundreds of Facebook
friends on the Internet? The creation of social networking sites such as
Facebook and Twitter gives a view about people are connected with other others
despite the geographical distances. However, it also causes people ignore their
real friends, family, and life. The social media addicts spend more time in the
online world while neglecting their surroundings. Do you still remember when
the last time you greet your neighbor is?
People
often stick with their social media accounts to avoid boredom (Reinke, 2015).
In fact, we feel bored and unhappy because of our social media accounts. The
posts on social media lead the users constantly to compare themselves with
others and consider less of their lives (Probst, 2015). People’ life is
continuously being hit by other social media users’ thoughts. Hence, it causes
a low level of life satisfaction and leads to unhappiness.
In
addition, social media is the first and last things we check every day. The
brightness of our phone screens could trigger alertness and affect our mental
health (Laliberte, n.d.). According to Loria and Gould (2015), the phones light
will disrupt people’ sleep schedule, damage our memory and vision.
In
conclusion, the social media has been widely used for boon and bane in the
digital era. It provides a platform for global communication and plays a vital
role in e-commerce in the 21st century. However, scholars pointed that the
social media has affected the social relationships, individual well-being and
available time for sleep (Zaitie-Bank & Tat, 2014). Ultimately, it is not
about the daily usage of social media, but we have to be aware of what social
media might be doing to us.
References
Booher, D. (2014). 6 ways social media is doing more harm than good. Retrieved from http://www.huffingtonpost.com/dianna-booher/social-media_b_5375853.html
Laliberte, M. (n.d.). 21 signs you’re way too addicted to your phone. Reader Digest. Retrieved from http://www.rd.com/advice/relationships/cell-phone-addiction/
Loria, K., & Gould, S. (2015). How smartphone light affects your brain and
body. Retrieved from
http://www.businessinsider.com/how-smartphone-light-affects-your-brain-and-body-2015-9?IR=T&r=US&IR=T
Probst, C. (2015). 10 ways social media affect our mental health. Retrieved from http://blog.degreed.com/10-ways-social-media-affects-our-mental-health/
Reinke, T. (2015). Six wrong reasons to check your phone in the morning: And a bettern way
forward. Retrieved from http://www.desiringgod.org/articles/six-wrong-reasons-to-check-your-phone-in-the-morning
Zaitie-Bank, N., & Tat, U. (2014). Social
media and its effects on individual s and social systems. Paper presented
at the Management, Knowledge and Learning International Conference 2014.
Portoroz, Slovenia.
Hi Sok Fern, you have written a good piece of article about social media. I have a love- hate relationship with social media actually. I like to see the progress of my friends on FB and learn new things via FB but at times it can be so time consuming. Sometimes one page leads you to another page, and you spend more time than you expect on social media.
ReplyDeleteSpending too much time on social media on the wrong things can actually lead to depression and frustration. Suddenly everyone seems to live a better life than you and you cannot help but to compare your life with theirs. Sometimes there is also a tendency to always post something to show others that you are doing" fine". Haha I am actually speaking from experience here. But now I am trying to just focus on people that I really care and things that I really love.
For example, instead of "stalking" people that live a totally different lifestyles than me, I should like more pages that offer motivation, practical life skills and destressing contents. I also like to learn new languages like Korean, Japanese and French through Facebook pages.
I have learnt to post whenever I think is necessary, most importantly the content should be encouraging and uplifting. Actually our social media is actually a reflection of another side of us. So I have to really think twice before posting or commenting on something. Plus, my mum is my friend on FB and that adds more pressure hahaha. Just kidding =)
Dear Joyce, thank you for your opinion, feedback and sharing of your experience. Not only the Facebook homepage, my Instagram and Twitter also drive my high level of Internet addiction.
DeleteYes, I remembered that I read an article about people get more frustrated when they engage more on the social media. This is because the people's mindset of "others are living better than me". Therefore, we really have to cope with it and live stronger than our struggle. :)
Apart from that, the social media does actually reflecting what and how we are as we are posting, updating and recording our significant life events in detailed on the social networking sites. For instance, I will upload a picture whenever I have a gathering with my friends on Instagram with intention to keep all these precious memories.
Hello, Joyce's mummy! My mother has an account on Facebook too but she is not active user. Maybe my mother should add your mother as friend so that they can chat and share the similar topics, hobbies and interests. Haha.
Thank you Sok Fern. It's no understatement to say that social media is a phenomenon now firmly entrenched in our lives.
ReplyDeleteNew figures released in March 2016 show Facebook has reached 15 million active users in Australia alone. Meanwhile, other social media networks continue to grow, particularly with the younger audience – Instagram has 5 million monthly active Australian users, Twitter 2.8 million, WhatsApp 2.4 million and Snapchat around 2 million.
Not only are the number of users growing, but also the amount of time spent on these sites, with research from last year showing 49 per cent of us access social media sites every day, and 24 per cent are visiting them more than five times each day.
Social media has become such a commonplace part of modern existence that few of us give much thought to the psychology behind why we're so drawn to it, what it's really doing to our brains and the impact of our growing obsession.
Social media has also been found to bring on some negative emotions from users. A study by two German universities into social networking found that one in three people surveyed felt worse ("lonely, frustrated or angry") after spending time on Facebook, often due to perceived inadequacies when comparing themselves to friends.
According to scientists at Stanford University, social media is also affecting our ability to multitask, with a study showing people who spend a significant time on social media were "more susceptible to interference from irrelevant environmental stimuli" and less able to complete more than one task simultaneously.
Hi Patrick, thank you for your sharing. With reference to the statistics you mentioned above, we can see that social media is already part of our life. People may experience unhappiness when they are consuming the social media. To deal with the negativity of social media, users have to make changes of their negative attitudes and behavior. For instance, we should feel happy when our friends are eating good foods. In addition, people may step out from their home for a walk or jog when they feel bored and lonely because of the social media. In conclude, we should utilize the given opportunities to shift our attentions from the virtual world to the surroundings which we often ignored. Be a smart social media user.:)
DeleteThank you Sok fern for your opinion. Social media has become a drug for me. This is mainly because I do think I can't live without it. The benefits of social media such as Whatsapp, Facebook have deeply embedded in my daily life. I can use it without charges, can keep updated with the information of others and other benefits. Nevertheless, the over consumption is dragging my time to other meaningful things such as spending time with my family members and friends and doing assignments. In addition, it does affect my eyesight as well. Hence, social media is indeed dangerous.
ReplyDeleteDear Esther, thank you for your feedback and opinion. Social media addiction is a more serious problem than we think. The first thing you can do is put your mobile phone down and appreciate the vastness of our life. It is far more pretty and interesting when compared with the online world.
DeleteI would like to share an article that talks about ways to stop the social media addiction and I hope that this can helps you. :)
Link: https://www.bustle.com/articles/144893-7-ways-to-stop-your-social-media-addiction
Hi Sok Fern, this is seriously a problem that people encountered with nowadays. For me, i also have addiction toward social media as i will keep checking the latest post although sometimes there is no current post already. Hence, now i need to try to limit myself in checking social media before i getting more addict about it
ReplyDeleteDear Jia Chi, thank you for your reply and feedback. It is good when people able to realize the seriousness of the social media addiction issues. Self-consciousness plays a significant role in helping social media users to deal with their social media addiction. As you mentioned above, we really have to limit the usage of social networks in order to back to our life.
DeleteHi, it's you again~
ReplyDeleteSocial media is a two-edged sword. I think all of us know about that. Actually, I am the process to limit myself for not over-use the social media but cared about the persons around me. However, social media is still useful for me to know about the latest status of my family and friends. For example, I am happy that my friend had an engagement last week. I am thankful I know that she is good although we have long time not to contact each other. It makes me happy when I see the good news from them ^^
Dear Jessie, thank you for your sharing and feedback. Yes, everything has two sides. The overuse of social media brings negative consequences to us. Meanwhile, there are many benefits are followed with the social media use. Social media has been a good platform for us to know the latest updates and news from our family, friends and the society.
DeleteThe key point is moderation, with check and balance, and
a firm grasp being kept on the mind at all time, the social media is good for the society.
Hi Sokfern,
ReplyDeleteThanks for this interesting topic, deeper explanation and make us think critically about the dangers of social media. I admit that several days ago and months ago, i felt addicted to see what kind of status, videos or some information on media social Facebook. Sometimes its make me felt really stress with on my situations without social media. Now, i try to keep it out from my mind set as the "burden" things but make it "valuable/logical" things how to handle it. So, just to soft reminder for us that, this kind of "social media" actually will effect our reality life especially our daily routine, our mind and also our future life if you are not take actions how to handle it carefully.
Dear Ruzimah, thank you for your reply and sharing. It is glad to heard that you are controlling the usage of social media. As you mentioned before, there are lots of valuable and logical things need to deal in the real life. Once again, thank you for your soft reminder about the impacts of social media our daily life. :)
DeleteHi Sok Fern, yeah, I guess social media has becoming and old song to remain same. Although social media did make good influence in our life, we still affected by it as we probably never aware of. There was a time, a friend of mine keep updating social media, rolling facebook while we were in conversation. I don't know social media has been a dogging material for real conversation. and it happens every day. So, yes, I rather have a quality time with my friend instead of faking some good relationship on social media.
ReplyDeleteHi Winnie, thank you for your feedback and sharing. I used to be like your friend too. I was keep staring on and playing with my phone while I was in a gathering with my friends and I found that it is really a meaningless gathering if everyone of us just play with own hand phone. Now, I will keep my phone in my bag whenever I am joining a gathering or talking with others. The quality of time is being so important and become a basic to build good relationship with others. Strive to enjoy in the real life! :D
DeleteHai sok fern. Bagi saya media sosial bahaya bila pengguna terlalu bergantung dengannya. Bukan itu sahaja, bila pengguna sudah terbiasa dengan menggunakan media sosial mereka seperti tidak boleh berjauhan dan ingin sentiasa melayari media sosial. Saya juga seperti sangat bergantung dengan media soial kerana setiap hari ingin mengetahui apa yang berlaku di di laman sosial seperti facebook, whatsapp dan instagram. Jadi dari situ kita boleh lihat kesan negatif media sosial.
ReplyDeleteHi Jasmine, terima kasih atas perkongsian anda. Saya setuju dengan anda atas pengguna telah tagih kepada laman sosial seperti facebook atau youtube. Oleh sebab itu, pada pendapat saya, pengguna media sosial perlu menggunakan Internet dengan bijak supaya media sosial ini tidak disalahgunakan dan menyebabkan kesan negatif seperti yang anda nyatakan.
DeleteThank you Sok Fern. Your first sentences is- Yes! But, what kind of information we search for is depends. Usually I opened my "DATA" and search for "FACEBOOK" early in the morning (after opened my eye) to read LATEST NEWS especially in BERITA HARIAN ONLINE. This is because, we are student, we dont have time and dont have so much opportunity to read newspaper as the product is not appear in campus. Hhahaha.. But, sometimes, I cant denied that, I will keep updating my Whatsapp as my routine before and after woke up. Because Im afraid people cant contact me (people like to whatsapp rather than call by credit). So, yeah, social media has influence the way I'm behave.. I agree this statement 126%. Thank You Sok Fern ....
ReplyDeleteHi Noraini, thank you for your feedback and sharing. I'm agreed to you that students like us like to search “FACEBOOK” to get the latest news happening around us. But, for me I normally don’t trust the news from Facebook, because I think that Facebook most of the time as the information shared should not be trusted. This is because most of the time the news in the form of video or image, are not showing the complete side of story. Hence, I still prefer to get news from conventional newspaper. Thank you for supported me. Haha. However, I do agreed that the social media effects my life too. Haha.
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