Oleh: Ruzimah Binti Romie (49992)
Pernahkah anda terfikir mengenai sosial fenomena
yang memaparkan perbezaan antara lelaki dan perempuan ketika melayari dunia
“sosial” yang merujuk kepada konteks secara atas talian (online) di media
sosial? Bilakah kali terakhir anda memuat naik gambar pada laman media sosial?
Adakah anda gemar memuat naik status mengenai masalah yang anda hadapi? Anda
lebih banyak menggunakan media sosial sebagai hiburan atau menghabiskan masa
anda dengan melayari laman sosial?
Suatu blog perbincangan mengenai persoalan di atas
yang meliputi konteks atas talian (online) perbezaan antara golongan lelaki dan
perempuan. Perbezaan ini lebih berfokus kepada penggunaan media
sosial facebook kerana faktor kekerapan dan penggunaan media
sosial ini yang seringkali digunakan sebagai medium “Like, share and comment” yang lebih cepat dan mudah untuk kita melihat
faktor perbezaan perlaksanaan antara lelaki dan perempuan ketika berada atas
talian (Online).
Berikut merupakan contoh paparan pada laman media
sosial facebook tingkah laku yang
berbeza antara lelaki dan perempuan ketika berada atas talian (online).
ketika
waktu makan ketika melihat movie sambil
makan
Berkongsi
mengenai permainan Dota Berkongsi
tentang produk kecantikan
(online games) (online business)
(online games) (online business)
Versi
Lelaki muat naik status Versi
Perempuan muat naik status
Setiap paparan
diatas adalah berdasarkan pemerhatian dan pandangan yang saya kongsikan melalui
rakan-rakan pada laman sosial facebook yang
realitinya kita dapat perhatikan dan berlaku dalam kehidupan pada masa kini. Terlalu
banyak perbezaan yang dipaparkan antara golongan lelaki dan perempuan ketika
berada di atas talian (online). Tambahan pula, Paparan ini adalah situasi atau
fenomena yang seringkali kita lihat dan berterusan pada setiap hari, masa dan
tempat kerana penggunaan media sosial ini tidak terhad. Ketika berada atas
talian (online), penggunaan media sosial ini digunakan berdasarkan pola
pemikiran, tingkah laku dan tujuan yang berbeza antara lelaki dan perempuan.
Sebagai kesimpulan, setiap
penggunaan media sosial ini bergantung kepada tujuan dan bagaimana untuk
menentukan corak penggunaan yang berbeza antara lelaki dan perempuan ketika
berada atas talian (online). Malah ada juga kes yang berlaku mengenai atas
talian (online) yang melibatkan permainan, perniagaan, perkahwinan dan
pendidikan yang bersifat global melibatkan golongan lelaki dan perempuan secara
berterusan dan fenomena ini bukanlah suatu konteks yang baharu tetapi ia akan
berlaku dengan isu yang berbeza dan cara penyelesaian yang berbeza.
Contoh isu-isu
yang dipaparkan pada akhbar online tempatan melibatkan golongan lelaki dan
perempuan ketika berada atas talian (online).
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- Ketagih dengan permainan League of Legends iaitu permainan yang dikatakan popular dalam talian, seorang pengantin perempuan di heret ke pelamin. Untuk bacaan selanjutnya, anda boleh layari pautan yang tertera di bawah:
- Seorang wanita mendapat perhatian netizen pada laman sosial facebook yang telah memuat naik videonya pada laman tersebut memperkatakan mengenai isu wang hantaran perkahwinan RM20,000. Isu ini bertajuk “Ramai lelaki ikhlas menerima”. Untuk maklumat lanjut, anda boleh melayari pautan tersebut:
Rujukan
Sinar Harian
Online. (24 Disember, 2016). Leka main ‘games,
pengantin diheret ke pelamin’. Dipetik
pada 23 April, 2017, daripada Sinar Online:http://www.sinarharian.com.my/global/leka-main-games-pengantin-diheret-ke-pelamin-1.602537
Mazizul Dani. (31 Mac, 2017). Ramai lelaki
ikhlas menerima (METROTV). Dipetik pada 23 April,
2017, daripada Harian Metro Online:
Hi Ruzimah, thanks for posting about an interesting article. Indeed, the topic of gender often sparks debate offline and online. Yes, I think definitely there are difference in terms of guys and girls' online habits, but it can be a dangerous stereotype.
ReplyDeleteI have a female friend who can play Dota quite well to a level that she is better than some of her male friends. I have also male friends who write more "long and sentimental" status than me. I do think their own personalities play a more important role here.
I think everyone regardless of their gender should be free to have their own kind of online preference as long as it does not harm others. =)
Hi Joyce. Yes.I'm agree with your opinion.Thanks for your feedback about the role of male and female in terms of online/offline situations in media social and so on. Absolutely kindly talk about your own experience about this topic. Its all about preference itself and nobody can control or guide us about the role in online/offline attitudes. As you say, as long as it does not harm others.
DeleteDear Ruzimah, thank you for sharing. Does male more advance than female on the Internet? Interesting, my male friends are more expect in dealing with the Internet things than my female friends. Whenever we (female) have questions, we will ask them (male) for solution. My male friends like to watch basketball competition online while female friends enjoy to learn the make up tips from YouTube. From my observation, men really behave differently than women in the online world.
ReplyDeleteHi Sokfern,
DeleteThanks for your opinions. Yes. I admit that the differences between male and female in context of "online world" actually more advance the way of deal with online is male rather than female. But, we also as female having more interest on "female world". Its just the way i wanna showing that my friend on social media reacting like that and sometimes we must think and do some kind of "analysis" to get the valuable differences based on this kind of topic related with nowadays situations/ phenomenon.
Thank you Ruzimah for the information. With the advancement of technology nowadays, people are mixed around with their habits in consuming the Internet. The line between the usage of Internet among males and females are getting blurred. Although naturally females are prone in communication and males are more skillful in technical stuffs such as playing games and searching for more technical information such as coding, we cannot ignore the interests of people can be similar whereby it cannot be distinguished by the difference of gender. Males can be very good in communicating in real life and also Internet world, and females can do the same things as well as males. Therefore, I personally think that the classification is not relevant in our society anymore.
ReplyDeleteHi Esther,
DeleteThanks for your feedback. I'm totally agree with your opinions that the classification is not relevant in our society anymore. This is just some of picture or situations i wanna share about their "own interests". Somehow, do some critical analysis and related issues is more relevant to portray about this topic. kindly will come out with the good research and showing some of percentage about online/offline habits among this two gender nowadays.
Hi Ruzimah, thanks you for sharing. In my opinion, however, this cannot be classified based on gender because everyone have their own habits and things that they like. Even though male and female might have different way when they post something but use gender as the medium of classification is not suitable anymore because there are someone who might have same interest between male and female.
ReplyDeleteHi Jia Chi,
DeleteThanks for your opinion. Yes. This classified not really related with the reality of "preference" amongst the gender (male/female). Its just merely to showing that this kindly situations still appear and we will show it on our media social as well. As the social sciences student, we will more think critically and analytical how to portrayals the habits among the male and female nowadays.
Terima kasih Ruzimah atas perkongsian mengenai perbezaan yang berlaku antara perempuan dan lelaki.. Saya bersetuju dengan kenyataan tersebut yang mana perempuan lebih cenderung untuk berkongsi tentang 'Wanita' dan lelaki cenderung untuk berkongsi mengenai 'lelaki'. Sebenarnya pada pandangan saya, sukar untuk membezakan kerana apabila kita sudah melabel sesuatu dengan sesuatu, ia telah menjadi "stereotaip". Tetapi tidak dinafikan, sebenarnya perempuan lebih gemar berkongsi mengenai hati, makanan dan sebagainya di laman sosial, manakala lelaki lebih gemar berkongsi mengenai sukan, permainan dan sebaginya. Adakalanya mereka akan berubah kesemua tabiat ini mengikut keadaan dan semasa contohnya pada musim perayaan dan sebagainya. Lelaki pun boleh berkongsi mengenai kecantikan, kerana kadang-kadang dia membantu rakan-rakan untuk mempromosikan perniagaan. Perempuan juga begitu. :)
ReplyDeleteHai Noraini,
DeleteTerima kasih atas pandangan anda. Ya. Perbincangan mengenai topik ini untuk membuka arena "idea/hujahan/kajian ilmiah" mengenai perbezaan paparan antara lelaki dan perempuan atas talian dan sebagainya. Suatu kajian terperinci perlu dilakukan untuk dapatkan makna dan peratusan bagi menentukan sikap atau pembuat keputusan semasa berada atas talian.
Saya bersetuju dan tertarik dengan pandangan yang anda nyatakan mengenai sikap golongan lelaki yang membantu mempromosikan produk kecantikan dalam perniagaan rakan-rakan mereka. Rujuk kepada "kepentingan" individu itu tersendiri tidak kira antara lelaki dan perempuan.
DeleteTerima kasih Ruzimah :)
DeleteThank you Ruzimah. Some research found some other impressive stats about male vs. female use of social media. In checking out their sources and data points, it is discovered that women are more likely to interact with brands via social media than men.
ReplyDeleteMore than half of women use social media to show support and access deals or promotions from brands, compared to just 36% of the men online.
Not only do women use social media to stay up to date with brands, they also comment on their favorite brands more than men do.
The fact that women are more active on social media than men has held true for at least the last five years. However, it is important to note that women interact in different way and are leading the shift from desktop to mobile where social media is concerned, which is a huge concern for social networking sites launching in the next few years.
Hi Patrick!
DeleteThanks for your interesting research and found some of ideas about this kind of topic. Exactly to saying that nowadays several female will talking and updates their own "interests" on social media about brands. Except for me. Its depends actually on "preference" like the other saying. So, i like to mention again that its all about what we think, what we do and what we say.
Thanks Rizimah, I believe that everyone has their own preference to post and share on social media. That is how we make friends. Eventually, we will end up with those who share same interest with us, and learn so much more from those have different interest with us.
ReplyDeleteHi Winnie,
DeleteThanks for your opinion. Yes.absolutely based on what you think and the most important things that we will share same interest with us, some while we just can learn and get new ideas/knowledge.
Thank you Ruzimah. it is a interesting topic.
ReplyDeleteI always believe that boys and girls are totally different living creature. They have different concept of thinking in decision making. Girls take boys as single cell animal while boys take girls as complicated fellow. The nature of boys and girls makes we have some barrier in communication. We are hard to get the point from them. Yet, it is also interesting when we are changing opinion with each other.
Hi Jessie,
DeleteMost welcome. yes. Talking about decision making, its really different amongst in gender and situations. So, i just wanna try to describe and give some pictures about attitudes and concept of thinking between male or female. Agree with your opinion that if we can changing opinion with each other to get "knowledge" from other perspective.
Girls are complicated, I guess its right, Jessie! Hahahaa
DeleteHai ema. Bagi saya perbezaan lelaki dan wanita jelas boleh dilihat melalui cara mereka mengambil gambar dan gambar ynag dikongsi di laman sosial. Jika diperhatikan perempuan lebih cenderung untuk berkongsi gambar yang berkaitan diri sendiri berbeza dengan lelaki yang tidak banyak berbuat demikian. Oleh itu, dari situ kita dapat tahu bahawa lelaki tidak beberapa suka umum mengetahui mengenai diri mereka dan itu merupakan perbezaan yang terbesar yang boleh dilihat. Namun saya juga tidak nafikan bahawa ada juga segelintir kaum lelaki yang suka berkongsi mengenai diri mereka seperti perempuan. Jadi semuanya bergantung pada diri sendiri.
ReplyDeleteHai Amirah,
ReplyDeleteTerima kasih atas pandangan anda. Ya. saya bersetuju dengan pernyataan tersebut. segalanya berkaitan dengan "tujuan" setiap individu itu sendiri sama ada lelaki/perempuan. Izharnya, kita juga dapat perhatikan setiap individu sama ada golongan lelaki/perempuan mempunyai kepentingan tersendiri. Bukan mudah untuk buat penilaian terhadap mana-mana pihak terutamanya melibatkan dua golongan yang berbeza. Kebiasaannya kita dapat lihat dalam media sosial facebook golongan perempuan lebih cenderung berkongsi mengenai diri mereka. Manakala golongan lelaki sebaliknya lebih ke arah tindakan atau secara terus (games/perniagaan/) dan sebagainya. Menarik untuk lakukan kajian terperinci mengenai topik ini untuk tujuan ilmiah sebagaimana yang kita perlu lakukan sebagai "pencetus perubahan" terhadap masyarakat.
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